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Bridal Brunch
Please join us for a bridal brunch celebrating the brideāher journey, her joy, and the love that surrounds her as she steps into this next chapter. This intimate gathering is designed to honor her with thoughtful details, shared stories, heartfelt toasts, and words of affirmation from those who know her best.
Guests will enjoy a relaxed yet polished atmosphere featuring curated brunch bites and signature brunch beverages, creating space for connection, gratitude, and meaningful celebration. Itās a moment to pause, pour into the bride, and celebrate her in a way that feels both intentional and unforgettable.TBA
Saturday
March 14
TBAAttire
Shades of Purple; Chic; Photo Ready
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Ceremony
Though the courthouse will bear our signatures, our commitment will not feel complete until it is witnessed and affirmed by the people we love most. Through a humbling foot-washing ceremony and the richness of soulful voices filling the room, we know this union will be sealed in spirit and in love.
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Private Reception
Surrounded by family and close friends, we look forward to sharing an intentionally crafted dining experience. Come enjoy delicious food, genuine connection, and the simple joy of being togetherābecause the best memories are made around the table.
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A Little R and R
From the first toast to the final encore, the evening is guided by live entertainment that sets the tone for celebration. Enjoy signature cocktails from our open bar, meaningful moments on the dance floor, and A Little R and R as the night unfolds.
Reggie & Rita
3/21/2026If we had it our way, we’d already be married. We’d follow our usual theme by booking a flight and checking into a hotel with no luggage. But we want to share this moment with family and friends who mean the most to us. Food, Art, and Music—FAM—that’s you. That’s what we want this celebration to be—all we need are your lovely faces.
Reggie & Rita
The Couple
Reggie & Rita
“God can change anything and it doesn’t take him all day to do it!” -Ms. Sarah Maclin (Nanny)
If you know us, you know we both entered adulthood raising our families. Dedication and sacrifice made us who we are. But the next part—this is for US!
Reggie is a man of few words who appreciates peace. A selfless man and servant-leader, Reggie avails himself with acts of service to friends and family. Those who know him know that all he really needs is his music, good food, and a bit of meaningful conversation.
Rita loves to make everything feel special and fanciful. Holding very few inhibitions, she explores life and experiences because God created everything and she believes it is all within reach. Preparing to become an empty nester, Rita surrendered that she was ready to live and travel and explore alone if that was God’s will. Then she noticed Reggie noticing her and a brunch invite turned into wedding invitations. šš
Parents
Parents of the Groom
Pastor Charles and Lady Carolyn Hayes
Parents of the Bride
Joan & Arthur Miller
Parents of the Bride
The Late Pastor Jerry & Lady Angula Alston
Bride Tribe
Beunca L.
Rita’s Baby Sister | Maid of Honor
DAY JOB: Badass Supervisor—She’s not the one or the two!!
One Thing I’ll Always Have In My Purse:
A Receipt (lol)
Advice To The Groom: Have Fun
Self-Appointed Role In the Wedding: Keep Sarita out of it
Shatamara D.
RITA’S LIFELONG FRIEND | Matron of Honor
DAY JOB: Jill of all trades…Sis knows EVERYTHING!
What song would be your walk-in theme song – Boosie “Wipe Me Down”
If the Bride were a TV show what show would she be? – The Devil Wears Prada (that’ll forever be funny)Ā
Your self-appointed, unofficial “role” on wedding day? – Gatekeeper. The bride doesn’t need to know about that, just fix it!
Kimberly, The Creator
RITA’S ALTER EGO | Bridesmaid
DAY JOB: Sensei—Don’t play with her.
Describe your personality as a cocktail? A frozen sangria – the perfect blend of unpredictability & spontaneity with a whole lot of cool vibes.
Your self-appointed, unofficial “role” on wedding day? Curator of Creative Content
If the bride were a TV show, which one would she be? Being Mary Jane—but like Being Sarita
What’s your idea of a perfect girls’ day? A day trip with no itinerary, interesting conversations, and bottoms up! (Glasses or *sses š«¢)
What’s your signature dance-floor move? I have a smooth gangsta walk that lends itself to a slow wind – very Memphis.
Kendall A.
RITA’S OLDEST DAUGHTER | Bridesmaid
Day Job: Master of Sarcasm and RBF—stay back.
What’s your go-to Starbucks order? Chai Latte w/ Vanilla
If the Bride were a TV Show, which one would she be? —Friends
What’s Your Idea of a Perfect Girls’ Day?
Drinks, Food, Music
Taylor A.
RITA’S YOUNGEST DAUGHTER | Bridesmaid
Day Job: Student by Day —Lifeguard & Animal Whisperer by Night
What’s your go-to Starbucks order?
-Iced matcha latte with 7 pumps of vanilla and sweet cream cold foam.
ļ»æWhich Rom-Com character do you relate to the most? -Lana Condor, Anyone But Youļ»æ
What’s your self-appointed, unofficial “role” on wedding day? -Hype Woman
Tonya D.
RITA’S FRIEND FRIEND | Life of the Party
Day Job: Who’s Asking?
If The Bride Were A TV Show, Which One Would She Be? – Golden Girls
One Thing I’ll Always Have In My Purse: Vaseline
Self-Appointed Role In the Wedding: To Remain A Lady In My Dress BUT Be Ready for Anything At The Reception—I’m The ratchet Friend! š
Man Cave
Maurice Hampton, Sr.
BEST MAN | TAIL DOG Ī© ĪØ Ī¦
BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER
DAY JOB: Entrepreneur
Too busy to answer phone calls; total “get it done” kind of guy. That’s why Reggie is trusting him to stand beside him on his big day.
Faith Hayes
REGGIE’S LITTLE SISTER | GROOMSWOMAN
DAY JOB: The Librarian
Reggie’s 1st best friend. As PKs, most times it was just the two of them. As adults. their bond has only grown stronger—they are raising their parents together.
Wayne White
GROOMSMAN
DAY JOB: Commercial Driver
Met over music in 2018. In 2019 Reggie and Wayne started a band together. Since then, it’s been friendship and brotherhood. Wayne is super talented—playing for incomparable talents like Lattimore and Denise Lasalle.
Event Schedule
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Registry
We are beyond grateful to be celebrating our wedding with you. We appreciate you coming from far and wide ā city friends, we know that traveling to Covington feels like crossing the country ā to be with us. Your attendance is as good a gift as any, but for those who would like, we have thoughtfully put together our registry with items to help us start this next chapter in our lives.
We have so much to look forward to and have included cash gift options if you would like to contribute to our future plans. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. – R & R
Accommodations
Holiday Inn Express & Suites Millington
Hampton Inn & Suites Millington
AirBnB Options
Go Getaway Bed And Breakfast
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Asked & Answered
With a wide circle of family, friends, and loved ones, we know questions are bound to arise. Weāve shared a few helpful details below to ensure your experience is seamless and stress-free.
What time does the ceremony start?
The ceremony begins PROMPTLY at 3:00pm. We recommend arriving at the venue no later than 2:30pm so that you can easily find a seat. If you truly know the bride, you know sheās a stickler for time.
Are children welcome?
Reggie & Rita have curated a beautiful wedding experience with an adult atmosphere. Please book the sitter and join the fun.
Is there a dress code?
Please refer to the āScheduleā page of our site for full details. We ask that on our wedding day that you dress in all black ā think Elevated Cocktail, Elegance.
Why did some family/friends receive different invitations?
While we would love to celebrate with everyone, our reception will be a private, intimate gathering. However, weāve planned several meaningful events before and after the wedding where we look forward to celebrating with family and friends in different ways. It means so much to us to share this season with all those we love.
Do I need to stay the entire weekend?
While we do hope you can join us all weekend, we understand if youāre unable. Please let us know what your plans are so we can coordinate excursions and dinners accordingly.
What will the weather be like?
Weāre so grateful youāre traveling to celebrate with us in Tennessee. March marks the start of early spring, with mild days and cooler eveningsāso we recommend layers and comfortable outerwear, especially for evening events. Weather can be a bit unpredictable, but thatās part of the charm of the season. We canāt wait to welcome you and share this special time together.